Sometimes when we think we are in a god place all of a sudden boom…something has gone wrong and I had no clue until my face burned. Have you ever felt this way? Are you constantly walking on egg shells…making sure the floor boards don’t squeak? Please if you have a moment in new relationships to recognize the red flags that are always present if he or she has abuse before. Some are texting 50 time in a minute, asking questions like where are you, who are you with? Questions that make you feel like if you get the answer wrong your “in trouble”. Or what you wearing today? They both a sound inkocent or like he or she really cares, but they are indeed red flags. Love should never hurt or make you feel uncomfortable, and if you think it does your already seeing the signs.